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How to Meditate with Intention?
This is a Question I keep getting asked by many… So I decided to answer it here.
Before I go on explaining in detail on how to do it … let’s understand what Intention is:
Intention or Intent is a Primary though or an Idea or a desire one wants to be fulfilled, it can be something very personal, Like: I want to become Rich, or I want to be Healed, or I want a Happy Relationship or I want a Peaceful Life. It can also be impersonal like May my Husband / wife be Happy or healed, May my Parents have Peace in their lives or it can also be :May there be Peace on Earth.
However there is a contradiction on Intention Meditation or Meditation with Intention and that is : Meditation is supposed to help us go from Mind to no mind or to say from thinking to thoughtless, if that is the case how can I have a thought during Meditation? isn’t that going completely against the fundamental Principle of Meditation?
and the answer to that question is here:
The Idea of Meditation with an Intention is not about having the Intention while you are Meditating, but before it, or more to say the Idea is to hold it in the Background, the secret here is that Universe does not really understand your thought, or your Sub Conscious Mind does not really understand a Thought, what it does understand is a feeling or the intensity of your thought, such as if you are thinking about having a good health but internally believe you are going to get even more sicker or worse going to die, your belief about your sickness will trump your thought about health.
another example: if you are thinking of having more money in your life but the reason you are thinking about having more money is because you have none or to say you are inspired to think about more money because you have so much of debt to pay of, then your intensity of debt trumps your idea or thought of having more money…
this is the reason … it is very important to understand how to Intend before we go about magnifying that intent with Meditation. yes that is all we do with Meditation, we Magnify our Intent.
so here is how you can clean your Intention :
the Intention should have 3 Qualities
- It should be Clear
- It should be inspired from a Positive Emotion.
- It should be in present tense
if you are thinking about Intending for better health
your Intention could be
I feel more and more healthy every day,
if it is about your liver or kidney or any specific organ about your body
you can say:
My Liver is Healed (if this sounds too much to think of or feels like a false statement) you can say I can feel my Liver getting better and better, or My liver is getting healed, or My liver is recovering at an amazing rate.
another way of saying it would be using the Law of attraction where your focus is on what is working and not on what is not working, because what ever you focus on Expands, there by if your liver is functioning only 1% and 99% is not functioning then you can say:
I am Grateful that my liver is functioning, this way as you focus on what is working, it will increase and expand
same principle can be applied for money: if you have 1 dollar and you would like to have a million, you can say:
I am Grateful for the money I have, as you focus on what you have you will expand… what you have… in this case the money you have.
but remember … doing lip service does not help… you need to feel genuinely, as Your Sub-conscious responsible for every experience in your life does not understand your words … it only understand your feelings… this is where Meditation with Intention becomes even more useful.
here process of Meditation with Intention
Once you have crystallized or clarified your core thought or thoughts you want to be fulfilled, take 3 breaths or more until you feel calm and focused, now think of the thought in your mind once in the said fashion as mentioned above, and now go about doing your meditation as you always do… that’s it.
another way you can do it is … Write down your Intention on a Piece of paper, keep it in front of you while you meditate with a knowing in your heart that your intention(s) is being fulfilled… This is How you can Meditate with an Intention, without disturbing your Meditation in any way. This way you allow the Mysterious powers of the universe or your sub conscious mind to manifest the object of your desire.
How ever some people like to put in more effort they can follow the following method I do not call it Meditation with Intention (though some people like to call it that) it can be called as a Guided Meditation or Visualization: In this Process you use your Imagination to achieve your one goal at a time, During this process you would hold to that Primary thought, and Imagine as if it is already happening for you and generate the feeling within your heart, as if the object of your desire is already achieved, for example if your legs are fractured or paralyzed, you generate a Vision of you walking or even running and allow your self to feel that you are running, the more intensity you can feel during this session the more powerful effect it will have on you. (this process I personally do not like to call it meditation, since it is active thinking and Imagination) but it is an effective process and works magically as well.
How to Use Meditation with Intention for “Peaceful Earth” Irrespective of which Meditation Technique you practice:
Step One: Understand what “Peaceful Earth” Means: “Peaceful Earth” is a Reduced form of Intention which in detail means:
Peace for Human Kingdom, Peace for Animal Kingdom, Peace for Plant Kingdom, Peace for Mineral Kingdom, Peace in th Heart for Mother Earth and Peace for all the Known and unknown, Visible and invisible kingdoms that are present on earth whether we human beings are aware of them or not, we seek peace for all of them.
So when we Intend for “Peaceful Earth” using it as a thought in our mind before meditation or using a piece of paper we are Intending for the above.
Step Two: There are 2 things you can do to Magnify “Peaceful Earth”
- Meditate Every day for a minimum of 15 minutes with the intention “Peaceful Earth”
- Once a Year Organize a Mass Meditation with a Minimum of 10,000 people in your city to come together physically and Meditate for “Peaceful Earth” (why a Minimum of 10,000 people? read my book available for Free Download Here or Purchase on Amazon here)
During the Mass Meditation all you have to do is Gather at one single place with Big Banners on which you can Write “Peaceful Earth”, and every one who is attending knows in their hearts that they are gathering for Meditation for “Peaceful Earth”.
Today I Visited a War Remnant Museum in Vietnam… It was a Divine providence that I ended up being there unplanned (normally I am never interested in death and war and avoid it like a plague) but it happened so due to a new friend I made here that I ended up going there… Going through the Images of people / Army Personnel and common people, their plight, it was heart wrenching, just trying to Imagine for a second putting myself in their shoes… Ohhhh the pain is unthinkable.
I wondered what goes through a man’s mind when they go down to such levels to deny the human being on the other side to be considered even close to a human just because your country has labeled them “The Enemy”.
Are we all not made by the same divine being? Are we all not capable of loving each other as much as we are capable to hate each other? Then why do we choose hate over love?
I am now reminded of the Wise words… “The world suffers a lot. Not because the violence of bad people, but because of the silence of the good people. ”
Today I completely understand this statement, because I have worked for World Peace for many years (On and Off) … I have always approached it from an Idea of living in a better place than the world we live in today… But my conviction towards working on it was that of a comfort … Not of a necessity… for I have never had a first hand experience of war… And I am so very grateful for it… Having said that… I can feel the pain of the people going through war… Even today as I write this article … More than ever… And I Urge You to please for a few years let’s say the next Decade or so … Let us all put our energies together to Create Permanent Peace on Earth… If you are thinking “I would like to but don’t know how”…
Let me help you … Please Download this Free Book: World Peace and how to make it happen, In this short book I have explained a 3 Step process on how to create Permanent Peace on Earth.
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Physical Immortality the moment you hear those words… probably the first thought that comes to your mind is: Impossible… or may be … Science is working on it… may be in the near future… we also hear that some billionaires are spending their fortune to make it happen for themselves… and some people believe that the soul is immortal so why worry about being physically immortal?
when ever I try to bring up this topic among people I meet… sometimes complete strangers and some times known friends … one of the most common answer I get is … “Oh I want to live max till 70 then die” for some the number is even 50… for according to them if you are going to be physically Immortal then they are going to continually grow old as shown in many popular news papers about people who have lived beyond 100 usually are the most wrinkled persons on earth and who would like to have so many wrinkles?
Many people have heard about physical Immortals in different parts of the world … but then they simply give away the Idea … oh that is possible only for great souls… and go on living a life that will lead to eventual death…
But wait a minute… What if everything you knew about Physical Immortality was wrong? What if Physical Immortality meant you can live young forever? or for as long as you wish to? if that is too long a stretch for you… what if you could live a very healthy life till you were 80 or 100? you could maintain the same level of vitality and vigor as you do in your 20′ or 30’s and maintain it life long? would that interest you? if so stay on this page and continue to read 🙂
Before we go a little further… there are 2 questions I would like to answer
- If you are wondering that I am going to try and sell you a magic pill or anything else at the end of this article … well you can scroll down now and see there is nothing for sale here
- If you are wondering what authority I have over this subject … then here are my little achievements …1. Since my childhood I have been a very sick child … If I didn’t visit a doctor in 3 months … it would be a great achievement for me … and today … I am Happy to say that I have learned to heal myself without medicine and have been off drugs for more than 15 years now, In all honesty I did visit a doctor 2 times in last 15 years when I had to learn a few lessons, one of the lesson was … it is okay, to go to a Doctor if you really need one… and the other one was to realize that sometimes fear can give you more pain than the actual illness can… any ways coming back2. I have been researching on this topic of Physical Immortality and have read some books talking about the same, as well as I was lucky enough to meet a person who has himself met more than 9 Physical Immortals living on earth … more about him later…3. I have realized that knowing about something and actually practicing them are 2 different stories … but at the same time you can never practice some thing until you know about it… so knowing is the first and very important step.
So here is what I understand about Physical Immortality:
- It is Very much Possible and there are 100’s of physical immortals if not thousands living on this planet earth today as you are reading this article.
- It is not something that needs a lot of medical research (the way it is being done these days) to invent a pill or organ replacement kind of nonsense (for physical immortality)
- It is not something that is to be limited to Yogi’s or so called God Men Only…
In fact it is something everyone of us can and should look forward to…
The moment I say that – some people go… “but if every one is Physically Immortal then what about the finite resources that we have on planet earth?” This question comes from the lack of understanding about Physical Immortality or what we can call is half knowledge… even before one explores the full possibility of something … one starts questioning … because … it is very fearful … the very concept of physical immortality shakes your fundamental belief structures, stories you have been so closely guarding, every thing shakes and the deeper we go into the research … all those beliefs can crumble… but what if that was the first step to Physical Immortality…
One of my friends … who is also on the path of Physical Immortality once said to me when I asked … but why do people Die? the answer he gave was … Because Dying is Easy… I can’t agree more with this statement… because questioning is easy … staying in your painful comfort zone is easy… it is easier to blame and die than to take complete responsibility of ones life and live for as long as you want…
So why are we so against living? forget about living forever… we are against living itself… but why?
some of the answers I am able to understand are
- Death is Great Business … Yes the 3 Largest Businesses in the world revolve around death… 1. Wars / Military 2. Medicine (Allopathy in particular) 3. Insurance… all of them revolve around death.
- staying stuck … staying in routine … is easier than doing something new or living without a schedule… and if we have studied any scriptures of the world … they all say … change is Growth… Growth is life… meaning change is life. Here is a question for you … can you live 10 days of your life without pre-planning it ? and yet doing something new every day? there is one of the Secrets of Physical Immortality… “Do Something New Every Day”… This one thing can keep you Alive… Living … Thriving … for the rest of your life… (Try practicing it) I know a person… she put on herself a challenge of giving 365 days so she decided to give something to some one every day some one new… something new… when I met her she was close to more than 30 days of this practice … and then I met her after 45 days or so of her practice … and her glow was continuing to grow… I am not sure if she knows that if she continues to do so all her life … she will end up living for ever… but if she does not know about the possibility of Physical immortality … she will end up dying … why ? because of her belief in Death… remember you cannot do something until you know about it first…
- The belief that Death is Natural… all trees and animals die… it’s all a cycle… but then isn’t human being ‘suppose to be a superior race’? or are we self proclaimed superior beings? There are many trees which are living beyond 500 years some even 1000’s of years, turtles live 300-500 years, some snakes are believed to live well over 1000 years, then why is human dying at meagerly 80? if we are not superior … at least we should be able to live equal or close to our animal brothers and sisters? not because our bodies are in capable… no they are not … the latest research shows that our whole body renews itself every year, we get new including bones that take the longest to renew … which is close to a year… but then why do we Die? it’s not our bodies … but our minds … that is the cause of our death… Like its said … Body is nothing more than a slave of the mind… so if your mind is pro death … then your body simply follows the order…
- here are a few examples for you to check if you are living a Pro Death Mindset… (Many many questions will rise here… this is your litmus test… this can be a painful list to go through … but it is very useful list … for it will also help us become more pro life) so here goes: Answer in a Yes or No… the more Yes’es you get the more Pro Death you are…
1. Do you eat dead animals? (includes eggs, seafood, chicken, sheep etc,.)
2. Do you smoke? (regular or irregular does not matter)
3. Do you Drink Alcohol? (small quantities or large does not matter, beer and wine counts too)
4. Do you hate your work?
5. Do you have any Dis-Ease? or are you on any kind of a chronic medicine?
6. Do you attract accidents? (it may sound weird but people who are pro death attract accidents) because in life there are no accidents.(I might be required to write a completely new article just to explain this concept) any ways moving on…
7. Do you love junk food?
8. Do you eat packaged food regularly? (biscuits, chips, chocolates etc, anything packed counts or anything with a self life more than 7 days counts)
9. Are you in a bad relationship(s)? (as in involved in regular serious fights)
10. Do you like/love horror films?
11. Do you have Suicidal Thoughts?
12. Have you stopped dreaming for a better life?
13. Do you have Stress in life?
Now you might say … but most of our society / cities / countries live like this… why do you think I say that we live in a Pro-Death World?
Now in the first glance … especially those who have answered ‘yes’ to more than 90% of the above questions, I have news for you… and it is good news… and the good news is … that you now know that you are living a pro death life… which means you can turn this around … because now you know… if you are wondering HOW? then that’s a wonderful mind you have … keep reading and we will get there… but if you are thinking … man that’s a lot of bad habits and pro death-ness … and I can’t possibly heal my self … still you have a better mind … because somewhere you do believe in the possibility of healing yourself, meaning with enough information you can reverse everything above and heal yourself and live as long as you please, and if you think … this is all nonsense … sorry my friend … you have a closed mind … and the only answer or the only wakeup call for closed minds is death, hopefully in your next life you will have an open mind.
to simplify the concept further let’s understand some thing … we can live a life only in 2 ways
When a Person lives a life pro-death we say… that person is having a strong unconscious death urge… similarly when a person lives a life pro life … they have what we call as high life urge.
there are two kinds of death urge 1. un-conscious death urge and 2.conscious death urge similarly there are 2 kinds of Life urges: 1. unconscious Life urge and 2. conscious life urge
or we can say … we start our life with unconscious life urge, then we grow up in to un-conscious death urge and reach death some people transit from un-conscious death urge to conscious death urge and then die, the trick how ever is if we can transit from where ever we are to conscious life urge. because even people with un-conscious life urge end up dying.
for example almost every child is born with high un-conscious Life Urge, but slowly growing up, we all grow up in to un-conscious death urge, as we accept death as a natural phenomenon, without ever questioning it, from that non questioning of death, takes birth of un-conscious death urge, a belief is set into motion within our selves that, I am going to grow old and die some day, after a certain age, every birthday celebration seems to kind of become a … I am getting close to my death day … celebration… so many people across the world feel depressed on their birthday.
wondering what is the difference between unconscious death urge and conscious death urge? wondering why would some one consciously want to die?
A lot of people make their un-conscious death urge conscious the moment they get tired of living, it is not that they are in capable of living, it’s just they are too tired to live any more, and the sad part is this has started to happen to people in their 30’s and 40’s these days, but why are they tired, most of the times it boils down to 2 things
- the illusion that they have no other choice
- lack of knowledge that they can turn everything around and live as long as they wish to.
Because as far as I understand no body whose life is going the way he dreams it to be and has the knowledge that he/she can live for as long and as healthy as they want… will ever die.
So How do we turn our Death Urge in to Conscious Life Urge?
Step one is Purify your diet: do not eat, drink or smoke death… Do your Research, there is a chapter dedicated to Physical Immortality in a book by linda goodman – Star Signs … read that chapter… create a 3 year or a 5 year plan to purify your diet… slowly but surely take steps in the right direction.
Understand the importance of your beliefs in keeping you alive and break every belief that says death is natural in one way or the other.
Read Books that talk about Physically Immortality, that will help you improve your Belief structure, some books I recommend are : The Life and Teaching of the masters of the Far East by T.Spalding (set of 6 books) , The Ringing Cedars Series by Anastasia (set of 9 books), Ageless body Timeless mind by Deepak Chopra, Overcoming The Seven Inhibitors to Bliss by pauline win, Read All books by Leonard orr available at www.leonardorrbooks.com , Autobiography of a Yogi by Parmahamsa Yogananda, All books by Jasmuheen,
Learn to Breathe Correctly, check out these Sites – https://rebirthingbreathwork.com , https://www.breathmastery.com
Just so that you know, I know these people but I am not getting paid in any way from them, I share their names because they are the best in this field as far as I know.
and no matter what you need reversed they can help you do so. and if you are in India you can contact me as well.
If you hate your work: you can have 2 choices to turn things around
- Stop your current work and start doing something you love
- find ways of accepting your life and invent ways to loving your job, basically find meaning in what you do.
If you have any kind of addiction and really want to De-Addict your self then check out the website www.Doctoryourself.com , this site contains proven ways of using Vitamins to heal any Dis-Ease or addictions.
If you love junk food or processed food and are not able to let go of them … understand that you have too many toxins in your body which have kind of attract / addict you to such foods even more, try fasting, or get a Panchakarma Treatment from a qualified Ayurvedic Doctor. for details on fasting your can check out a website: http://masterfastsystem.com
If you like Horror films or have suicidal thoughts, Try spending time in nature, be it a forest, or a sea shore, mountains or a garden, try spending un disturbed time in one of these places for a minimum of 3 – 7 days, this should help you get back to your true self, kind of re connect you to you.
If you are too tired of dreaming a better life or too stressed … Try Resting… Yes … True resting for a minimum of 7 days … sleep for as long as you want… no phones or computers or Televisions, or meeting people, or partying … go to a place close to nature and just get bored and rest… this will help you reset.
You can never solve a problem from the same level of thinking from which you created it – Einstein
The more your Increase your Life Urge … the closer you are going to get to Good Health and with Good Health and healthy living practices you will get closer to the Idea of Physical Immortality, and by feeding your mind with the Idea of Physical Immortality by reading the books mentioned above and creating a community of people who want Physical Immortality too, we will be able to achieve it.
I for sure want to live for 300+ Years… How about you?
Let me know in the comments section below and if you are genuinely interested in becoming Physically Immortal email me so we can create a community, and I can help you connect with Communities already probable existing in your country / city.
If you have any questions please feel free to ask me using the comments section below and I will try and answer them.
Hurt… what is hurt?
if we look at it closely, it is pain, pain caused due to our action towards our selves or caused due to the actions of others towards us in a way we are not expecting it or not accepting it.
I am not going to talk about the physical hurt in this post, because one way or the other it’s pretty clear to every one, what physically hurts and what does not hurt.
In this post, I will be mostly talking about the emotional and mental hurts that we go through and many a times continue to hurt our selves because we think it is being caused by some one out side of us and there by it is out of our control.
Accept it or not… all emotional / mental hurt is self inflicted…
I know it might be sounding absurd to accept the above statement in the first go but if you continue reading it might make sense to you by the end of this post 🙂
There are Basically 2 kinds of Hurts:
Direct hurt is when someone says or behaves in a way with the intention of hurting you, like insulting you, swearing at you, threatening you, judging you, shaming you, blaming you, lying to you or about you, mis guiding you … you get the point… normally when we come across such actions directed towards us our first response is that of anger if the opposite person is some how lesser in power than us or frustration if the opposite person is more in power than us, but what we forget here is that whether you get angry or you get frustrated, both the ways you are making a choice and that choice is of ‘Hurting’ Yourself, Like Buddha says: you will not be punished because of your anger, but by your anger.
So the question here is what do I do if I come across such a situation, because we do come across such situations almost on a daily basis, and the answer to that question is: “exercise choice”, yes, choice of a third path… where you do not react but respond.
It is as simple as that, remember I said Simple not easy, a lot of times we misunderstand simple to be easy it is not, the transition from simple to easy needs practice, without practice even a simple thing can seem very difficult.
for example: Imagine you have a lock to open and in your hands you have 10 different keys, there is only one key that fits this lock, only with practice you will know which key fits this lock, after you practice and remember which key belongs to this lock it becomes easy, till then it is simple.
Similarly, “Exercising Choice” is simple, until you practice and remember, then it becomes easy, it becomes your attitude.
So what is this Choice that we need to exercise? The Choice is to remember… that “you are free to choose how you feel” about any situation… You can feel Angry, you can feel sad, you can feel happy, you can laugh about it, you can ignore it, you can do something about it, you can basically do anything you want about this situation, the choice is up to you…
The most Important thing to remember here is that “You have the freedom of Choice” to feel the way you like to feel no matter what kind of a situation you are in, after all feeling Hurt is also a feeling, and feeling hurt is not the only choice available to you.
Now coming to In-Direct Hurt: In-Direct Hurt is basically where someone close to you does something which was against your expectation of them, let me give you a few scenarios:
Scenario 1: Between a man and a woman, Imagine you are a woman going on a date with your lover, normally he got you flowers every time you have met so far, this time he didn’t and you (choose to) ‘feel hurt’.
Scenario 2: You are a Manager at your place, you delegate a task to your subordinate, he promises to finish it in 2 days and he doesn’t and you get angry (choose to feel hurt) (anger is hurting yourself)
Scenario 3: you are a parent and you son or daughter does not perform well in their exams, you get unhappy or sad (unhappy or sad feelings are hurtful feelings… you are choosing hurt for yourself).
Now when you look at the above examples you might say but isn’t that an obvious reaction? and the answer is: Just because everybody is doing it does not necessarily make it right, like Voltaire said: excellence is the enemy of good. There is always a better way.
Remember, the reason for your unhappiness, sadness, anger, frustration, or any kind of hurtful feeling in any “In-Direct hurt” is not somebody else’s actions but your own perception of them, in most of the cases – them not being able to meet your expectations.
Which means, even in a “In-Direct Hurt” the freedom to choose the way you want to feel is still with you.
In my experience, most of the people stay stuck in a In-Direct Hurt, longer than in a Direct Hurt, some times for years together and some times even for life times.
Because when in “In-Direct hurt” one gives away the responsibility of the way they feel to somebody else, mostly using Blame, reasons, excuses or denial.
So if you are feeling hurt: whether it is through “Direct Hurt” or “In-Direct Hurt” remember, that the freedom to choose on how you should feel about it lies with you.
The First Step in Healing anything is Taking 100% responsibility of your own feelings, Because when you Change the Feeling you begin the Healing.
feel free to share your thoughts or ask questions using the Comment Section Below…
Thought comes first or Emotion?
This question might come as a surprise to a lot of people… some might even say what’s the difference?
Scientifically speaking: thought has an electro magnetic current also know as EEG and originates in your brain, where as emotions have an electro magnetic current that originate in your heart known as EKG these impulses are 5000 times stronger than the impulses in your brain.
Having said that, the question arises… how does it affect my life?
Let me ask you a few questions:
- Do you want to get rich?
- Do you want to loose those extra pounds?
- Do you want to become healthy?
- Do you want to have better relationships?
- Do you want to get good grades in you school / college?
If your answer is ‘Yes’ to any of the above question… then let me ask you… do you have it?
If your answer is ‘No’ to the above question then read on…
The difference could be that you are living more from your head and not from your heart…
Let me share with you a formula on how we all create the results we want in life:
Thoughts Lead to Emotions, Emotions Lead to Actions, actions create Results
Thoughts are like the front seat of your car… where you have your Steering wheel, your accelerator, break, gears, everything… you can sit on that seat and do all the actions… but the car (your life) will never move… reason … You Do Not have Petrol (Emotions) in your car.
You might have heard of this very famous Quote by Lao Tzu: The Journey of a thousand miles starts with a single Step … Now if you take the literal meaning of it … you might say he is talking about Action … but if you go to the deeper meaning of that Quotation… he is suggesting that single step is from your head to your heart… when you take that one step… it urges to you go all the 1000 miles…
Now before we go into the action of going to the petrol bunk and fill ourselves with Petrol (emotions) because we are so eager to get our results let me warn you… there are 2 kinds of Emotions…
- That will help your car move in the direction of your choice…
- The other that will make you feel stuck…
Knowing this difference is as important as knowing whether your car runs on petrol or diesel, because if your car runs on petrol … and you fill it up with diesel… what will happen to you? You will end up in: Debt, over weight, under weight, hospital, divorce, failure etc,. Get the Drift?
So what are these 2 Emotions?
Popularly they are known as Love & Fear, yes … not Love and Hatred … but Love and Fear.
All the sages, all the religions are in reality trying to teach us this one thing… how to live from Love and not Fear and now finally even the scientific community is coming out and accepting the fact that the real BIG problems in the world are not Hunger, poverty, wars or terrorism but Human Greed, Jealousy, Anger and Ego… the former are the outcome of the later.
The real problem is; people are living from fear most of the time and not from love…
Those who have mastered living from love… have the money of their choice, have the health of their choice, relationships, good grades or a good job…
Now you might say … but not everyone has everything … some people have money but suck in relationships… some have good relationships but suck at money, some have both but don’t have good health… or vice versa…
The answer is… because they have mastered the art of living from love unconsciously and know how to speak it only in one direction of their life and have no clue on the basic principles of Love and Fear.
for a moment think of ‘Love and Fear’ as a Language…
Imagine you are a businessman and can speak only Hindi, and you end up in Russia for business where they speak only Russian, will you be able to make the best of the opportunity if you continue to speak in Hindi in Russia? The answer is a big NO…
So every day you go to the market speak in Hindi … no one understands you, you come back to your hotel at night asking the question why does no one understand me? How many days of repeating this pattern do you think you will get the result you are looking for ? the answer is Never…
Now, how will you get results? By changing your behavior… you can do one of the two things
- Hire a translator (find a mentor) achieves short term results
- Learn the language (become your own mentor) improves your life forever
A lot of people take the step no 1… they go to a guru… which is not bad… it is good it is needed in that moment… but the problem arises when they start depending on that Guru… for answers … pay attention … not for guidance … but for answers all the time.
But instead if you would learn the language while your interactions with your mentor or guru, you will end up learning the language yourself… now that’s transformational.
Because once you learn the principles of the language called love and fear, you can use them both to your advantage and get unstuck from your life’s problems. Yes… we can use both… Love and Fear to our advantage…
So let me share with you a few principles of the language of Love and Fear
- Love and Fear are not just Emotions … they are a language you use to speak with the universe and more importantly also the language universe / god / your heart uses to speak with you… also know as your inner guidance system, so knowing the language will make you better at listening as well.
- Love and Fear are not just Emotions … They are a Spectrum of Emotions … or a Vibration of Emotions that cover a variety of emotions in them, for example Love contains happiness, joy, peace, calm etc inside itself and fear contains anger, despair, jealousy, guilt, shame etc in itself.
- Just like with a language you can speak and listen you can speak and listen to these emotions as well.
- Love always feels lighter and Fear always feels Heavier.
- Being in Love Vibration opens up your receiving… what many people call as luck, being in fear closes up your receiving… what people call as being unlucky…
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According to a study at the Harvard University, Working women feel more stressed than working men, there are several reasons behind it, but that does not matter, what matters the most is you feel the heat and we get it.
Now we want to help you relax, unwind and come back to life-like the rising sun and we don’t want you to stop there, we want you to learn how you can sustain this art and live life-like the rising sun from now on.
There are ancient secrets which are very simple, yet so very powerful, learning them once can help you live your life in such a way that you become the radiant glowing sun and have a positive effect on the people around you, rather than people around you draining your energy.
Imagine being able to live such a life, a life free-flowing, getting things done with ease and in harmony with everyone around you… I know it might sound close to impossible now, but trust me it is not, if you look at your life you must have experienced glimpses of such moments in your life, where everything is in harmony,everything you want to get done in a day, gets done and you still feel fresh, not drained at all, but only if you understood how it happens?, you would repeat it day after day right?.
what if, I told you: there is a science and you can learn the basics of that science in just one day and start living a life with ease, joy and glory.
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Guruji, as I call Monish, has played a very important role in my spiritual journey. Monish has been a dear friend and a guide over the years. I know him for many years now since the time I first met him when when he conducted my PLR sessions.
Dear Monish I truly am thankful to you for the guidance and the sessions you undertook for me. The ease with which breakthrough was achieved is remarkable. I know you have a gift and you should share it with the world.
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when looking at these two words you might think, whats the difference both of these words mean the same thing : Motivation | Inspiration.
The answer is NO, they both are not the same thing and definitely do not mean the same thing either. In essence they both work from a very different energy and feel very different as well.
Motivation is what we get, or buy from the outside world, it is more like a desire, we have to give ourselves reasons or reminders to stay motivated, we have to keep remembering what motivated us, the story we chose to believe, it is filled with effort.
The path of motivation is filled with struggle, stress, effort, in one way or the other, you need to put a lot of energy in order to stay motivated, so that you do not feel the brunt of it, and at every mistake you make there is a lot of despair, many a times accompanied by a lot of guilt and shame on our part, or the feeling of… not being good enough because you are not able to do it as someone else.
Because motivation is basically being a copycat, you look at some Idea, something someone is doing and is very successful at doing it, so you think to yourself, if I do it, I will be successful too, and then you start doing it, every time you are faced with a road block, you turn to books, or to observe that person what did he do in a situation like this, why is this ? because the Origin of a motivation is from the mind, it will have all the characteristics of mind only, it can do no better. Mind always seeks answers outside of you.
Because mind basically functions from fear, and the focus point of fear is always outside, the moment the focus point of mind turns inside that is when it converts into Love, and Love is what Inspiration is because the focus of energy in Love is Inside.
In motivation the end goal is the most important thing, the means to reach it does not really matter, which means the journey does not matter, only the end goal does, this is the reason there is so much stress in the world, parents are not worried what their kid is going though on a daily basis, all they are interested in is the report card, that comes at the end of the year, how many marks did you get? this fills the life of a kid with stress, we kill their inspiration, they were born with.
And those children who get used to this mindset, grow up and get into jobs, jobs that pay you high, whether its something that interests you or not, so in childhood you studied for marks and now you are working for the paycheck at the end of the month.
There are a few lucky ones in here as well, those who studied because they loved it, and those who are working in the job they Love to do, if you look at them, they are not stressed, but they are not motivated either, they work from a different energy, that’s ‘Inspiration’.
Inspiration, is what I like to call as in-spirit-action, it comes from your heart, there is no learning required in inspiration, all that is required is the courage to follow the instructions that come to you as and when they do. Learning happens on the way, it is the path.
Normally inspired people never doubt them selves, because they have learned the art of trusting themselves and their ideas, where as people who need motivation, need it (motivation) in the first place because they do not trust themselves.
The beauty of inspiration is, when you act from inspiration it is effortless, not that you do not put any effort, but while you are putting in the effort, you are feeling joy, where as when you act from motivation, you have to push yourself by reminding yourself, what you will get at the end of the journey, where as in inspiration, you enjoy the journey so much you just want to keep going, which ultimately not only makes you reach your goal, it takes you above and beyond your goal, even without you knowing the effort.
Inspired people are usually very calm, and they have a similar effect on the people around them, they experience more of what is called as serotonin (also known as the well being hormone) in their body, on the other hand motivated people are usually in a hurry, stressed and people around them can sense it too, they also experience the rush of adrenaline (stress hormone) in their body.
what do the release of these chemicals define for your body, it defines, that people who are motivated probably do not get a good sleep in the night, where as inspired people sleep like a baby.
Do not think that Motivation does not get you ‘success’ (as defined by the gathering or possession of material gains or name and fame) , you will find a lot of people who live life of motivation are successful, meaning a lot of money, big house, popular etc,.
What I am talking about here is not whether you can become successful with motivation or not, the Idea is both of these energies, motivation and inspiration get you to where you want to go, but one is based on fear and the other is based on love, so the person going through his/her life feeling motivated, will experience all sorts of emotions related to fear like stress, anxiety, worry etc. On the other hand a person living their life through inspiration will experience all kinds of emotions related to love like joy, contentment, peace etc.,
It is like going from India to Australia on a flight, a person traveling in fear energy will experience delays, frustration, fights for their own seat, stress etc,. on the journey. On the other hand a person traveling in love energy will experience joy of flying, flight on time, special upgrade to first class etc,. on their journey… at the end of the day if you look at them from outside, both of them reached their destination, but one is refreshed at the end of it, while the other is… you get the picture.
One more thing: it is not that the person experiencing life in love energy (inspiration) will never get flight delays, but it will only be a blessing in disguise for them and not frustrate them.
Now you might be thinking… how do I figure out do I live from Motivation or Inspiration here are a few ways to find out…
for those who figured it out already congratulations!!! you can directly scroll down to the end of this page and please share this article with your friends.
While those of you who like to understand a bit more below are a few guidelines…
- On the energy level there is one way a very clear way to find out the difference between Motivation and Inspiration, and that is using your feelings: Motivation will feel ‘heavy‘, where as Inspiration will feel ‘light‘. think of it like a red light or green light, when ever you are thinking of something or planning to do something, and it feels ‘heavy’, its a red light meaning you need to do some thinking still. where as if it feels ‘light’, its a green signal, drive away.
- if its motivation, You ‘HAVE TO’ give a lot of reasons for yourself to do it, but if its Inspiration, you will look forward to it, like Steve Jobs said: Your dreams need to pull you out of your bed not push you. Let Inspiration pull you towards living your life and not push you to experience your life.
- Motivation is mostly copied, its somebody else’s idea you stole, and you are simply copy pasting it in your life, no creativity there. Whereas Inspiration is always original. You might have got this idea by looking at someone else’s work, but it becomes original when you get pulled towards it and you make it better.
- Motivation seems like a lot of effort, Inspiration is Effortless.
- You need reminders (motivation), You do not need reminders (inspiration) because you never forget it.
- It feels like work (motivation), it is playful (Inspiration).
- You always follow a plan, no room for change(motivation), You follow the plan but surprises are welcomed too.
- I have to win at all costs (motivation), win-win is the key (Inspiration)
- You try to motivate others by showing them the end of the road (motivation), You inspire others by asking questions to be honest with them selves so they become more clear in knowing why they are doing, what they are doing (inspiration)
- You tell yourself what to do, You ask yourself what to do.
Quick Cheat Sheet: Motivation VS Inspiration
|Will feel ‘heavy‘.||Will feel ‘light‘.|
|I have to do this, I have to Win, at all costs.||I love doing this, so should others, win-win.|
|Copy Paste the Idea.||How do I better this Idea.|
|Lot of effort goes into, I work very hard.||It’s effortless, I enjoy my work.|
|I always forget, its frustrating.||I always remember, its easy.|
|I need a plan to succeed, no room for errors.||I plan and flow, mistakes help me grow, I am successful.|
|I have to do this.||What should I do now?|
Now if you are thinking what can you do to increase Inspiration in your life, here is what I recommend:
- Learn the art of inquiry, at any crucial decision making time ask your self, how does this feel? Heavy or Light?. For example: what Ice cream should I eat now? Vanilla or chocolate? which one feels light?
- Develop the practice of Meditation, helps you experience the feeling of ‘light’ and the feeling of ‘effortlessness’ with your eyes closed, so you can differentiate it when you are living your life with open eyes.
- Read books or watch videos that help you understand your true nature which is ‘light’. books by authors like: Louise hay, Abraham Hicks, Bruce Lipton, Wayne Dyer, Richard Bach, OSHO, Ramakrishna Paramahamsa, Parmahamsa Yogananda, Monish Dhawan, and many many more.
May you find your Inspiration in Life.
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Past Life – why?
This is the Most Common question I get asked, as soon as I introduce myself as a PLR Practitioner or a Past Life Therapy Expert.
and the answer is no, there is no need to get a regression done… just the way you wouldn’t buy a medicine for fun similarly you would not need a Past Life Therapy.
Having said that … I do get clients who come to me for a Past Life Therapy, just because they are curious, not for fun … but curiosity, there is a reason for that, will share with you in a while.
So the real question is not: what is the need for Past Life Therapy, but… when would I need it or which areas of my life can it help me in? Now that’s an even better question.
The answer to that is… Past Life Therapy can help you resolve the following issues.
It can help you resolve health issues: I have had clients where doctors have told them, they cannot help them any more, or that there is just no hope left for them and someone told them why don’t you try Past Life Therapy? and suggested them my name, and when we did the session they realize that the Dis-ease existed in their body because they haven’t forgiven some one, or is carrying a grudge on some one, many a times in the present life itself, but they had become so ignorant about it that they had convinced them selves that holding on to that grudge or not forgiving that person was the right thing to do.
Some people carry grudges from Past lives as well and have similar dis-ease experiences as well.
Relationship Issues: I once had a client whose concern was not able to get married, by the time she reached me 2 of her engagements had got broken for no specific reason, she was good looking,in her prime, very healthy, belonged to a affluent family, willing to give good enough dowry but still for some strange reason the engagements were being broken just a few days before marriage.
Now when you have such a strange problem where do you go? someone told her, go talk to Monish he might be able to help you, and she came to me, I suggested Past Life Therapy, to find the Root Cause of her problem, it took us three sessions to get to the root cause, but once we did, we discovered a very strange reason for her not getting married, her core belief that she was carrying from one of her past lives was ” I am not beautiful ” .
In this life she did not have any such ideas consciously, but this is something she was carrying from her Past Life, let me remind you she was good looking girl. The good news is, once she was able to figure out what was the core issue and resolve it with the help of PLR, she was very much relieved and six months later invited me to her wedding. now you must be thinking did it work out ? if I am writing about it… Yes … the answer is yes she did get married.
Past Life Regression (PLR) or Past Life Therapy can also be used to resolve other Issues like : Financial Problems, anxiety issues, Depression, Insomnia, Fears and Phobias… I will write in detail about them in my next article.
This is what I always tell my clients and people I meet, Life is your Feedback System, it will always only show you what You truly are inside.
Thereby if anything is troubling you, make sure to check out what is the thought you might be carrying about it. many a times you can figure out what the real thought is in your meditations it self, many a times your dreams give you the guidance, but because we never consider these resources to be powerful, mostly because trusting our own selves is one of the most difficult things in our lives, there by we seek external help, which is okay too, buy all external help should only lead to us learning to trust our inner guidance for it has all the answers we need.
So if you have anything troubling your Life these days, before going to sleep do this: Close your eyes and think about the problem that is pressing upon you in those days, then say to your self or any higher power you believe in, Please send me a Dream Message, in the Message send me guidance or help me resolve this issue, and go to sleep, after you wake up the next morning, before your open your eyes, try and recall your dreams, try not to shake your body so much, and you will be able to recall your dream.
I have found that it takes not more than three days of persistence to get the answer we are looking for or to resolve an issue.
Try it and let me know how it went for you. my email ID is md (at) monishdhawan.com
Now you might be wondering I never answered why people are curious to see their Past Lives… The answer to that is, many a times we have an issue we are considering trivial or simply ignoring or living in denial of that, but its an important issue to be resolved, this is understood by your super computer also known as your Sub-conscious mind, there by it gives you ideas of curiosity, like making you attracted to books on PLR or reading articles about it and stuff, and one day you say to yourself, let me see and you goto a Past Life Regression Practitioner, and guess what … you suddenly become aware of that issue and get help to resolve it.
And some times the Curiosity is just to have an experience of your Past Life as a part of your spiritual growth, it is rare but it happens.
If you found this article helpful please share it with your friends who you think might need it. and if you like to reach me you can always email me here: md (at) moishdhawan (dot)com.
Disclaimer: All Therapies mentioned on this website do not replace the need of your doctor, if you have any physical health issues or Mental health issues do seek Medical Guidance first.